2015 is almost over. We are dizzy from recent events. “I know, let’s go to Texas and see the family and try and relax,” I suggested.

Our 4-year old was on-board. My wife was, too. My family in Texas thought it was a fantastic idea. And Jetblue thought so, too.

My family caught us like a safety net below a trapeze artist. It felt good to be scooped up just before our faces hit the proverbial floor.

My Mom fed us lunch. My sister fed us dinner. Our exhaustion began to dissipate. We were loved. And it felt good.

Conor hugged on his grandmom. My sister hugged on my wife. And I hugged anyone that would hug me. Whew.

We visited the old haunts. Sister Ko introduced us to the new haunts. And Conor was loud enough to scare all the haunts.

Santa was good with his presents to Conor. And my wife and I were just happy to lean on each other instead of trading presents.

After filling our coffers with enough love to sustain us a couple of weeks or months, it was time to say goodbye.

My mom and I had a few quiet moments to share our truest feelings. And made a pact to be closer. That’s what love is.

My sister has always believed in me and I guess at this point, she’ll never stop. What a tremendous gift from a sister to her brother.

And my wife? Well, she signed up for all this and she keeps coming back for more. That’s love.

Merry Christmas, ya’ll.

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“What do you mean he can’t breathe?” I asked my sister. “Dad had to go to the hospital but is okay now. But he’s too tired to have the whole family come visit. It’s just too much,” she said as she choked back tears.

Understandable. Conor is 4 years old and exhausts both my wife and me. Imagine what he could do to an 84-year old man with compromised lungs after smoking his whole life.

I bit the bullet. Bought the ticket. And flew from Boston to Austin. My sister and I packed up her car and headed for San Benito.

We gossiped. Griped. Laughed. And wondered. What would life be like if we lived closer. Before you know it, 7 hours had passed. We had arrived.

“Dad, you look great!” I said, since he looked completely normal. “Well, I can breathe again,” Dad said with his usual dry humor.

I called the family to let them know all was okay with Grandpa Texas. We used Facetime so Conor could see him. Conor says, “Hi grandpa Texas. I heard your lungs weren’t feeling well. Are you okay?”

“Sure, I’m okay,” he said as he lifted his arms up in a sign of victory. Conor says, “Good, then dad you can come back home tonight.” I sure do love my boy.

Three more days of comfort, laughs and memories to store away. Good Mexican food. And a few prayers that this wouldn’t be the last time I’d see my dad alive.

“Sister Ko, you sure you don’t want me to drive?” “Nah, I’ve got this bro,” my sister said as we left the immigration checkpoint in our rear view mirror. Seven hours blew by and we were back in Austin.

Next day, back in Boston. How does it all go so fast? “Hey Conor. Hey Val, I’m back.” We hugged and we were one again. And now, it’s our turn to breathe easier.

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