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OUR FIRST FATHER-AND-SON WOODWORKING PROJECT

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“Dad, where did the hole go?”, Conor said, confused. “What do you mean, bud? You saw me drill the hole in the wood so the bird will have a place to enter the birdhouse.” “Yeah, but where did the wood go that was there?” “Well looky here, Conor, the wood becomes shavings. See this.” And I picked up the shaving and he looked at me surprised. “Hey, that’s paper. You made paper, dad.” “Yes, I guess it looks like little pieces of paper now.” And he picked it up and threw around the shavings. We screwed the birdhouse together and it hangs on the fence near the birdfeeder.

It was great building with my son. We actually started with a little drawing and measurements. He sat on my lap and did the drilling and electric screwdriving. And aside from pointing out that it sure was taking a long time, we actually finished what we started. Our first woodworking project together. Bam!
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HOW TO KEEP YOUR BABY FROM CRYING ALL NIGHT



As if 9 months of pregnancy isn't enough of a challenge, bringing the baby home from the hospital and having it cry incessantly just doesn't seem fair. Some babies will cry for hours a day when they come home from the hospital for the first 3 months until the crying one day magically disappears. And many a doctor will say there's nothing wrong with the baby. It's just colicky. They tell you to just ignore the baby and they'll cry themselves to sleep. According to Dr. Karp, an amazing pediatrician and author of "Happiest Baby on the Block", this is an outdated way of thinking. After researching baby culture around the world, he notices that some cultures don't even have colicky babies. So he began to discover why. And what could we learn so that our own babies don't cry for the first three months out of the womb. READ MORE...

WHEN CAN YOUR CHILD START MUSIC LESSONS?


Below the age of 3, most kids' hands are too small to play the piano and the brain and body may not have developed enough to understand the concepts of music.
Between the ages of four and twelve, children have an excellent ability to learn musical education. Especially if they've been listening to appropriate music up to now. Their minds are malleable and they have an extraordinary ability to understand the piano. Even learning to read music is easy. In fact, musical notation is easier to learn than any alphabet. Often, the ability to learn is only limited by the teacher's talents, not the child's.
Between the ages of 13 and 19 is also a great time to learn and can still create concert level pianists. The brain is still progressing greatly until the age of 16, where it begins to slow down slightly at 19. After this age, it will be more difficult to memorize and play and informal performances will be the best that most can hope for. FULL STORY...

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THIS WEEK -“DUCK FEET” BY THEO LESEIG

DuckFeet final from steve kolander on Vimeo.

Many research studies show that boys learn to read at a slower pace than girls because they don't have male figures in their lives that read. So I've decided to ask men to read outloud to kids so that boys can see that it's cool to read.
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